Nollywood actress Bidemi Kosoko recently posted an emotional video where she shaved off her young daughter’s long hair, sparking discussion among fellow Celestial (Christian) parents regarding when it’s appropriate to do so. In the clip, she expressed regret:

“Still can’t believe I scraped my daughter’s very long hair.”

Addressing her fellow believers, Bidemi appealed for collective guidance:

“My fellow Cele parents, I think we need to have a meeting with all these prophetesses to stop telling a girl child to wait till 3 years before scraping her hair… Walai, 1 year to wait is okay now.”

Her post reveals the tension between religious advice and parenting instincts—highlighting how families navigate faith-driven customs in raising children. Bidemi’s plea captures a moment of vulnerability, prompting reflection on who speaks for children and when. By encouraging unity among parents, she advocates for open dialogue rather than divisive prescriptions.